{"id":100456,"date":"2016-12-18T18:26:55","date_gmt":"2016-12-18T17:26:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/?page_id=100456"},"modified":"2022-08-27T22:02:40","modified_gmt":"2022-08-27T21:02:40","slug":"mjekimi","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/misioni\/mjekimi\/","title":{"rendered":"Mjekimi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Puna e v\u00ebllaz\u00ebris\u00eb Bigorski me persona t\u00eb varur dhe persona t\u00eb tjer\u00eb problematik\u00eb- shoq\u00ebror\u00eb<\/span><\/h2>\n
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T\u00eb lumtur jan\u00eb m\u00ebshiruesit, sepse ata do t\u00eb m\u00ebshirohen<\/em> (Mat. 5:7).<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\nIdeja p\u00ebr veprimtarin\u00eb bamir\u00ebse t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesjes dhe trajtimit t\u00eb t\u00eb varurve n\u00eb manastirin e Bigorskit, lindi krejt spontanisht, me vullnetin e Zotit, pasi nj\u00eb num\u00ebr n\u00eb rritje i t\u00eb varurve filluan t\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb manastir, duke k\u00ebrkuar ndihm\u00eb, zgjidhje dhe sh\u00ebrim p\u00ebr s\u00ebmundjen e tyre t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb. I prekur nga gjendja e hidhur dhe e pashpres\u00eb e k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb rinjve, abati i manastirit, at\u00eb Parthenij e pranoi ardhjen e tyre si shenj\u00eb e vullnetit t\u00eb Zotit dhe bindjes ndaj Tij, me gjith\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e tij hapi zemr\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb dhembshur dhe me kujdesin at\u00ebror iu dor\u00ebzua luft\u00ebs p\u00ebr shp\u00ebtimin e tyre dhe ringjalljen shpirt\u00ebrore, sepse ai kishte para syve mesazhin e ungjillit: “Mos harroni mir\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe m\u00ebshir\u00ebn, sepse flijime t\u00eb tilla i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb” (Hebrenj 13:16)<\/span>, ose “Ai q\u00eb kthen nj\u00eb m\u00ebkatar nga nj\u00eb rruga e rreme shp\u00ebton nj\u00eb shpirt nga vdekja dhe do t\u00eb mbuloj\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00ebkate” (Jakobi 5:20)<\/span>.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebshtu prej nj\u00ebzet vjet\u00ebsh, manastiri ka hapur dyert e tij p\u00ebr k\u00ebta t\u00eb rinj fatkeq dhe Pararend\u00ebsi i famsh\u00ebm shtrin dor\u00ebn drejt tyre, duke u ofruar mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb viktimave t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj s\u00ebmundjeje t\u00eb tmerrshme shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb \u00e7lirohen nga prangat e vesit dhe m\u00ebkatit, q\u00eb i solli n\u00eb at\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb mjerueshme. Dhe jo vet\u00ebm kaq. K\u00ebtyre t\u00eb d\u00ebbuarve nga shoq\u00ebria u jepet edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb rifituar dinjitetin e tyre njer\u00ebzor dhe vendin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe shoq\u00ebri, t\u00eb cilin e humb\u00ebn p\u00ebrmes jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre t\u00eb mbrapsht\u00eb, boshe dhe t\u00eb pafrytshme.<\/p>\n

\"\"Ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb vullnet t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pal\u00ebkundur p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas nj\u00eb jet\u00eb kaq t\u00eb err\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb rilindin n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb dhe g\u00ebzimin e Krishtit, mund t\u00eb fillojn\u00eb mjekimin dhe rilindjen shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb manastir, pasi fillimisht t\u00eb kan\u00eb kontaktuar me abatin e familjes Bigorski, arkimandriti Parthenij, djhe t\u2019ia shprehin d\u00ebshir\u00ebn dhe vendosm\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa t\u00eb jet\u00eb e nevojshme (nga 6-12 muaj, n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs sesi do t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb prifti) dhe p\u00ebr t’u larguar nga gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb i nxit drejt m\u00ebkateve, shprehive dhe pasioneve t\u00eb dikurshme. P\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e tyre, si dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e t\u00eb varurve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb trajtohen k\u00ebtu, ndalohet futja e cigareve ose l\u00ebnd\u00ebve narkotike n\u00eb manastir, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 me marr\u00ebveshje paraprake me et\u00ebrit e manastirit, p\u00ebr disa bar\u00ebra q\u00eb do t\u00eb nevojiten n\u00eb detoksifikimin. Me t\u00eb mb\u00ebrritur, i varuri z\u00eb vendin e tij n\u00eb komunitet, ndan me v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit dhe mysafir\u00ebt t\u00eb gjitha kushtet q\u00eb ofron jeta e manastirit – akomodimin, ushqimin, komunikimin mjekuesit tashm\u00eb me p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, p\u00ebr p\u00ebrshtatjen m\u00eb t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb me ambientin e manastirit dhe jeta e p\u00ebrditshme, dashuria, kujdesi prind\u00ebror dhe m\u00ebsimet shpirt\u00ebrore nga abati dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit, dhe m\u00eb von\u00eb mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsi me Misteret e Shenjta t\u00eb Krishtit. Megjithat\u00eb, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i detyruar t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb urdhrin e vendosur – bindjen ndaj abatit t\u00eb manastirit dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, frekuentimi i rregullt i adhurimeve dhe vakteve t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta dhe, natyrisht, p\u00ebrmbushja e detyrimeve t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme q\u00eb do t’iu caktohen (puna n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb, n\u00eb kopshtin dhe pemishten e manastirit, veprimtarit\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimore, mir\u00ebmbajtjen e oborrit dhe rrethin\u00ebs s\u00eb manastirit etj.). E gjith\u00eb kjo e ndihmon t\u00eb varurin t\u00eb tejkaloj\u00eb krizat fillestare fizike dhe mendore dhe n\u00eb planin afatgjat\u00eb t\u00eb forcoj\u00eb karakterin dhe rritjen shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n

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Mjekimi zhvillohet n\u00eb dy faza: faza e par\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga detoksifikimi, zgjat vet\u00ebm disa dit\u00eb dhe, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme, gjat\u00eb asaj kohe jepen sasi t\u00eb caktuara t\u00eb bar\u00ebrave p\u00ebr tejkalimin m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb kriz\u00ebs fizike; faza tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e gjat\u00eb dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillohen hapat thelb\u00ebsor\u00eb p\u00ebr rip\u00ebrt\u00ebritjen shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb personalitetit. T\u00eb gjitha metodat e trajtimit n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb natyr\u00ebs shpirt\u00ebrore. Ato p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb: biseda me p\u00ebrmbajtje shpirt\u00ebrore dhe k\u00ebshillime me et\u00ebrit e manastirit, e ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht me abatin – arkimandrit Parthenij, njohje me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetat ungjillore, sepse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb shpesh nuk kan\u00eb njohuri elementare p\u00ebr besimin, leximin e literatur\u00ebs shpirt\u00ebrore (fetare), dhe pastaj pasi q\u00eb ta njohin veten n\u00eb thelb ata do t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrimin e m\u00ebkatit dhe pasioneve, pastrimin e shpirtit p\u00ebrmes sekreteve t\u00eb shenjta t\u00eb pendimit, rr\u00ebfimit dhe bashkimit, dhe \u00e7lirimin nga skllav\u00ebria e var\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\"Peshkopi<\/div>\n
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“Kur djajt\u00eb do ta sundojn\u00eb shpirtin, …”<\/a><\/h4>\n

Peshkopi Parthenij, Abati Bigorski<\/p>\n

<\/i>Intervist\u00eb me Abatin Parthenij<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Puna e v\u00ebllaz\u00ebris\u00eb Bigorski me persona t\u00eb varur dhe persona t\u00eb tjer\u00eb problematik\u00eb- shoq\u00ebror\u00eb T\u00eb lumtur jan\u00eb m\u00ebshiruesit, sepse ata do t\u00eb m\u00ebshirohen (Mat. 5:7). Ideja p\u00ebr veprimtarin\u00eb bamir\u00ebse t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesjes dhe trajtimit t\u00eb t\u00eb varurve n\u00eb manastirin e Bigorskit, lindi krejt spontanisht, me vullnetin e Zotit, pasi nj\u00eb num\u00ebr n\u00eb rritje i t\u00eb varurve<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":100337,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-bigorski.php","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-100456","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/100456","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=100456"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/100456\/revisions"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/100337"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=100456"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}