{"id":130372,"date":"2024-11-11T13:46:23","date_gmt":"2024-11-11T12:46:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/vesti\/%category_vesti%\/prva-tribina-vo-debar-za-semejstvoto-kako-osnova-na-sozhivot-i-opshtestveni-vrednosti\/"},"modified":"2024-11-11T18:08:19","modified_gmt":"2024-11-11T17:08:19","slug":"tribuna-e-pare-ne-diber-per-familjen-si-baze-e-bashkejeteses-dhe-vlerave-shoqerore","status":"publish","type":"vesti","link":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/lajme\/ngjarje\/tribuna-e-pare-ne-diber-per-familjen-si-baze-e-bashkejeteses-dhe-vlerave-shoqerore\/","title":{"rendered":"Tribuna n\u00eb Dib\u00ebr p\u00ebr familjen si baz\u00eb e bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs dhe vlerave shoq\u00ebrore"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Pasdit\u00ebn e s\u00eb shtun\u00ebs, m\u00eb 9 n\u00ebntor, qyteti i Dibr\u00ebs ishte mikprit\u00ebs i Tribun\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb q\u00eb u mbajt n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb projektit p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetjen e bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs n\u00eb rajon, n\u00ebn organizimin e Shoqat\u00ebs p\u00ebr Mbrojtjen dhe Kultivimin e Vlerave Kulturore \u201cRaj\u00e7ica\u201d. Ky projekt i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm multikulturor dhe multireligjioz zhvillohet sipas ides\u00eb dhe me bekimin e ipeshkvit z. Partenij, dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb miratuar dhe mb\u00ebshtetur nga Komuna e Dibr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Tribuna, me tem\u00ebn \u201cFamilja: shtylla e dashuris\u00eb dhe zhvillimit shoq\u00ebror,\u201d p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn tryez\u00eb mblodhi p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesit e dy bashk\u00ebsive m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha fetare n\u00eb rajon, si dhe n\u00eb shtet, konkretisht t\u00eb bashk\u00ebsive ortodokse dhe islame. Fol\u00ebsit e ftuar, secili nga k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimi i ekspertiz\u00ebs s\u00eb vet, pat\u00ebn mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb paraqisnin mendimet e tyre mbi tem\u00ebn e trajtuar, duke kontribuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr pasurimin e diskursit publik. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tribun\u00eb, mes shum\u00eb qytetar\u00ebve t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm nga p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndryshme etnike dhe fetare, p\u00ebr g\u00ebzimin ton\u00eb t\u00eb madh, ishin t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm: Jerondi yn\u00eb, ipeshkvi z. Partenij, s\u00eb bashku me arkimandritin z. Dositej dhe pjes\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebllaz\u00ebris\u00eb dhe motrave t\u00eb manastirit; kryetari i Komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Dibr\u00ebs z. Hekuran Duka; myftiu i Dibr\u00ebs, z. Reshat Ka\u00e7alniku; drejtoresha e Qendr\u00ebs s\u00eb Kultur\u00ebs n\u00eb Dib\u00ebr, znj. Edona Alili; prifti famullitar, At\u00eb Mile Angelovski; murgj dhe murgesha, pun\u00ebtor\u00eb t\u00eb arsimit dhe kultur\u00ebs, si dhe nj\u00eb num\u00ebr i madh p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesish nga institucione t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-debar-za-semejni-vrednosti.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1440\" height=\"960\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-130314\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-debar-za-semejni-vrednosti.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-debar-za-semejni-vrednosti-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tribun\u00ebn e hapi psikologja Angelina Vasilevska, e cila theksoi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs n\u00eb rajon p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb dekadave t\u00eb fundit, si dhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e diskutimeve mbi k\u00ebto tema n\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn publike. Menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas saj, t\u00eb pranishm\u00ebve iu drejtua edhe Kryetari i Komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Dibr\u00ebs, z. Hekuran Duka, i cili p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndeti organizimin e k\u00ebsaj Tribune, duke n\u00ebnvizuar se duhet t\u00eb zhvillojm\u00eb angazhime t\u00eb tilla p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetjen e bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs, me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn Dibra krenohet.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDuke e vendosur n\u00eb fokus k\u00ebt\u00eb tribuna, do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb them se jam shum\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur q\u00eb do t\u00eb diskutohet mbi nj\u00eb tem\u00eb q\u00eb lidhet me familjen, sepse shum\u00eb her\u00eb kam qen\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb tribuna t\u00eb ndryshme ku diskutohet p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, t\u00eb drejtat e grave, por kurr\u00eb nuk kam qen\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm, as nuk kam d\u00ebgjuar p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb debat ku diskutohet mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja p\u00ebr ne, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb familja, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb qeliza themelore e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Sepse si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb familja, ashtu do t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb\u201d, theksoi Kryetari n\u00eb hapjen e tribun\u00ebs, duke premtuar se do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb&nbsp; t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb iniciativa t\u00eb tilla t\u00eb drejtuara p\u00ebr zhvillimin e t\u00eb rinjve n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri.<\/p>\n<p>Ligj\u00ebrat\u00ebn e par\u00eb mbi tem\u00ebn e trajtuar e mbajti murgesha Efimia Zajkovska nga manastiri i Raj\u00e7ic\u00ebs, e cila u p\u00ebrqendrua n\u00eb gjendjet bashk\u00ebkohore dhe sfidat me t\u00eb cilat p\u00ebrballet familja.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eSot, pavar\u00ebsisht nga gjith\u00eb zhvillimi ekonomik, industrial dhe teknologjik, v\u00ebrehet nj\u00eb paradoks q\u00eb reflekton d\u00ebme serioze brenda personalitetit njer\u00ebzor: n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrparoj\u00eb, njeriu b\u00ebn regres, p\u00ebrballet me stres t\u00eb pabesuesh\u00ebm, frik\u00eb, padije dhe s\u00ebmundje. Efekti m\u00eb i fort\u00eb negativ nga zhvillimi modern \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u2019ngjasimi i krijuar mes njer\u00ebzve, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ata largohen nga q\u00ebllimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin jan\u00eb krijuar, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsi dhe bashkimi me Zotin. Sot njeriu zhvillohet profesionalisht pand\u00ebrprer\u00eb, por ngec dhe d\u00ebshton n\u00eb planin familjar; ai ka shum\u00eb miq virtual\u00eb, por nuk krijon lidhje t\u00eb thella fizike dhe emocionale me ask\u00ebnd, \u00ebsht\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht i guximsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar sfida t\u00eb reja komplekse, por seriozisht i frik\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb hapur zemr\u00ebn e tij dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb brenda t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin e tij,\u201c theksoi motra Efimia n\u00eb fjalimin e saj.<\/p>\n<p>Nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera, ajo i nxiti t\u00eb pranishmit t\u00eb reflektojn\u00eb, duke u parashtruar pyetjen: Akan\u00eb familjet e sotme aft\u00ebsin\u00eb reale p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur me tendencat moderne, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb drejtuar kryesisht drejt zhvillimit individual t\u00eb njeriut, n\u00eb kurriz t\u00eb largimit t\u00eb tij nga t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-vo-debar-za-semejstvoto-sestra-efimija.jpg\" alt=\"Tribina vo Debar za semejstvoto - sestra Efimija\" width=\"960\" height=\"1440\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-130377 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-vo-debar-za-semejstvoto-sestra-efimija.jpg 960w, https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-vo-debar-za-semejstvoto-sestra-efimija-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201ePik\u00ebrisht aty, n\u00eb ambientin modern ku realisht t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne jetojm\u00eb, kemi p\u00ebr detyr\u00eb t\u00eb ofrojm\u00eb perspektiv\u00ebn ton\u00eb, t\u00eb kontribuojm\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndikojm\u00eb n\u00eb ndryshimin sistematik t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave, t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb arsim m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb, t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm n\u00eb respektimin e vlerave morale. Ndryshojm\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb duke ndikuar n\u00eb t\u00eb me shembullin ton\u00eb pozitiv, duke mbrojtur, sa t\u00eb marrim frym\u00eb, vlerat q\u00eb i kemi fituar dhe m\u00ebsuar fal\u00eb jet\u00ebs n\u00eb familjet tona: respektin p\u00ebr \u00e7do person, p\u00ebrul\u00ebsin\u00eb, ndershm\u00ebrin\u00eb, p\u00ebrpjekjen, vet\u00ebflijimin, mir\u00ebsin\u00eb, dashamir\u00ebsin\u00eb, m\u00ebshir\u00ebn, faljen, dashurin\u00eb! K\u00ebto vlera familjare, nga rrethi yn\u00eb i vog\u00ebl familjar duhet t\u2019i transmetojm\u00eb vazhdimisht n\u00eb familjen e madhe t\u00eb bot\u00ebs. N\u00ebse i kemi k\u00ebto, at\u00ebher\u00eb edhe do t\u2019i japim sepse, secili e transmeton at\u00eb q\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar, secili e jep nga zemra at\u00eb q\u00eb ka brenda saj,\u201c theksoi motra Efimia.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-sumea-1.jpg\" alt=\"\u043a\u043b\u0438\u043d\u0438\u0447\u043a\u0438\u043e\u0442 \u043f\u0441\u0438\u0445\u043e\u043b\u043e\u0433 \u0438 \u043f\u0441\u0438\u0445\u043e\u0442\u0435\u0440\u0430\u043f\u0435\u0432\u0442 \u0433-\u0453\u0430 \u0421\u0443\u043c\u0435\u0430 \u0420\u0430\u043c\u0430\u0434\u0430\u043d\u0438\" width=\"960\" height=\"1440\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-130310 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-sumea-1.jpg 960w, https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-sumea-1-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas murgesh\u00ebs Efimia, u drejtua psikologia klinike dhe psikoterapistja znj. Sumea Ramadani, e cila, me fjalimin e saj jasht\u00ebzakonisht frym\u00ebzues, mbajti v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb pranishm\u00ebve, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se \u201en\u00eb \u00e7do fe, familja \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e shenjt\u00eb, vendi i vet\u00ebm ku pranohemi ashtu si\u00e7 jemi, sepse vet\u00ebm n\u00eb familje mb\u00ebshtetemi te dashuria. N\u00eb familje t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi t\u00eb barabart\u00eb, nj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb. Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nevoj\u00eb themelore p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuar n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmija e merr nga prind\u00ebrit, e p\u00ebrcjell m\u00eb tej n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Familja na m\u00ebson t\u00eb gjitha aft\u00ebsit\u00eb sociale dhe q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb emocionale. Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00ebna, \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e shenjt\u00eb, lulja m\u00eb e bukur e familjes; n\u00ebna \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb mban t\u00eb bashkuar gjith\u00eb familjen dhe duhet t\u00eb respektohet me hir. Sigurisht, nj\u00eb rol ky\u00e7 n\u00eb familje dhe n\u00eb zhvillimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00eb personalitet t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e ka edhe babai, por n\u00ebna \u00ebsht\u00eb dhurata m\u00eb e bukur q\u00eb babai mund t\u2019i jap\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs,\u201c tha nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera znj. Ramadani.<\/p>\n<p>Pas znj. Ramadani, fjal\u00ebn e mori Imami i Dibr\u00ebs, z. Orhan Zengo, i cili shprehu k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kontribuonte n\u00eb nj\u00eb takim kaq t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Ai theksoi se \u201efeja ka nj\u00eb rol ky\u00e7 n\u00eb krijimin e nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm. T\u00eb jesh fetar, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh njeri n\u00eb kuptimin e plot\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs. Feja na m\u00ebson se si t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb miri familjen ton\u00eb. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb institucioni i par\u00eb ku lind dhe nd\u00ebrtohet nj\u00eb personalitet i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Nga nj\u00eb perspektiv\u00eb islame, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb person t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme. Dhe parakushti p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme \u00ebsht\u00eb martesa midis burrit dhe gruas, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb personalitete t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosha dhe t\u00eb formuara. Marrja e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb u p\u00ebrket t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrve, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb edukojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tyre, t\u2019i transmetojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha vlerat njer\u00ebzore dhe humane dhe ta nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb personalitet t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Edhe zhvillimi shoq\u00ebror varet pik\u00ebrisht nga vet\u00eb njeriu dhe personaliteti i tij. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb personalitete t\u00eb mira t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb, aq m\u00eb shpejt do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrparoj\u00eb shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb drejt nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmeje m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201c.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-orhan-1.jpg\" alt=\"\u0418\u043c\u0430\u043c\u043e\u0442 \u043e\u0434 \u0414\u0435\u0431\u0430\u0440 \u0433. \u041e\u0440\u0445\u0430\u043d \u0417\u0435\u043d\u0433\u043e\" width=\"960\" height=\"1440\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-130306 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-orhan-1.jpg 960w, https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-orhan-1-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fund u drejtua edhe arkimandriti Kiril Delovski nga Manastiri i Bigorskit, i cili e theksoi rolin pozitiv t\u00eb qytetit t\u00eb Dibr\u00ebs n\u00eb ruajtjen e bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs s\u00eb mir\u00eb nd\u00ebr shekuj. Gjithashtu, me nj\u00eb thell\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb teologjike, ai para t\u00eb pranishm\u00ebve e shpalosi perspektiv\u00ebn e lart\u00eb ortodokse p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn dhe familjen, duke e p\u00ebrmbyllur tribun\u00ebn edjeshme me shpres\u00ebn se kjo praktik\u00eb do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb edhe m\u00eb tej.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eMe nder dhe g\u00ebzim t\u00eb madh jemi mbledhur sot n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet t\u00eb lavdish\u00ebm dhe fisnik, Dibr\u00ebn, q\u00eb nd\u00ebr shekuj ka qen\u00eb simbol i gjall\u00eb i bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs, respektit t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb dhe v\u00ebllaz\u00ebris\u00eb. Qytet ku komunitetet e krishtera dhe myslimane gjithmon\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrta, ku n\u00eb familje jan\u00eb kultivuar vlerat familjare dhe ku \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb me kujdes shpirtin e zem\u00ebrgjer\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe mir\u00ebkuptimit nd\u00ebr breza. Sigurisht, ka pasur edhe situata negative dhe individ\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb dashur t\u00eb sjellin p\u00ebr\u00e7arje, mosrespekt dhe urrejtje, por, fatmir\u00ebsisht, k\u00ebtu historia kujton vet\u00ebm shembujt e mir\u00eb dhe ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vepra t\u00eb mira. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet, dashuria dhe respekti p\u00ebr t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin nd\u00ebrtohen n\u00eb baza ditore, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb Dibr\u00ebn nj\u00eb shembull t\u00eb papreksh\u00ebm n\u00eb shtetin ton\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebn dhe respektimin e dallimeve. Besoj se prania jon\u00eb e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt sot \u00ebsht\u00eb fryt i tradit\u00ebs shekullore t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs dhe respektit t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb, kaq e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet, dhe pa ekzagjeruar, edhe p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn. Prandaj, fal\u00ebnderoj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb u p\u00ebrpoq\u00ebn n\u00eb organizimin e k\u00ebsaj tribune t\u00eb mrekullueshme, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kryetarin e komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Dibr\u00ebs, z. Hekuran Duka, Jerondin ton\u00eb, Episkopin e Antanis\u00eb, z. Partenij, me bekimin e t\u00eb cilit jemi k\u00ebtu mbr\u00ebm\u00eb dhe myftiun e respektuar t\u00eb Dibr\u00ebs, z. Reshat Ka\u00e7alniku.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-kiril-1.jpg\" alt=\"\u0430\u0440\u0445\u0438\u043c\u0430\u043d\u0434\u0440\u0438\u0442\u043e\u0442 \u041a\u0438\u0440\u0438\u043b \u0414\u0435\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0441\u043a\u0438 \u043e\u0434 \u0411\u0438\u0433\u043e\u0440\u0441\u043a\u0438\u043e\u0442 \u041c\u0430\u043d\u0430\u0441\u0442\u0438\u0440\" width=\"960\" height=\"1440\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-130292 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-kiril-1.jpg 960w, https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/tribina-za-semejstvotoro-kiril-1-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do t\u00eb theksoj fjal\u00ebt e mbes\u00ebs sime nga v\u00ebllai, Koprina, t\u00eb cilat ajo i tha kur kishte vet\u00ebm kat\u00ebr vje\u00e7: \u2018Sa i trishtuar \u00ebsht\u00eb bota t\u00eb mos kem prind\u00ebr!\u2019 F\u00ebmij\u00ebt, sipas rregullit natyror, kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb domosdoshme p\u00ebr prind\u00ebr n\u00eb \u00e7do aspekt t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre. Nevoja p\u00ebr ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb, pranin\u00eb dhe mb\u00ebshtetjen e prind\u00ebrve \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamas\u00eb dhe e pa\u00e7muar&nbsp; ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e ngulitur n\u00eb vet\u00eb qenien e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Por, dilema e koh\u00ebs son\u00eb, n\u00eb epok\u00ebn e teknologjise&nbsp; dhe ndjekjes s\u00eb pand\u00ebrprer\u00eb t\u00eb vlerave materiale dhe trend\u00ebve bashk\u00ebkohore, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb k\u00ebtu p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb vler\u00ebson sukseset e dukshme, ku njeriu vler\u00ebsohet sipas suksesit t\u00eb tij n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, sipas lart\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb t\u00eb ardhurave t\u00eb tij dhe prestigjit t\u00eb pozit\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. Ky rit\u00ebm i pam\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm e varf\u00ebron shpirtin njer\u00ebzor dhe e largon nga lidhjet thelb\u00ebsore q\u00eb e fisnik\u00ebrojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Prind\u00ebrit, t\u00eb verbuar nga idealet e reja t\u00eb suksesit dhe vet\u00ebrealizimit, gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shpesh b\u00ebhen viktima t\u00eb var\u00ebsis\u00eb nga rrjetet sociale dhe t\u00eb ndjekjes s\u00eb pam\u00ebshirshme p\u00ebr karrier\u00eb dhe pasuri, duke vendosur n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb imazhin e tyre digjital, n\u00eb d\u00ebm t\u00eb af\u00ebrsis\u00eb familjare. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, \u00e7mimi i paduksh\u00ebm i k\u00ebsaj obsesioni paguhet me nj\u00eb \u00e7mim t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb: n\u00eb momente t\u00eb humbura, n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e humbur, n\u00eb edukimin e humbur. Prind\u00ebrit, t\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebrmes syve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, jan\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, t\u00eb munguar edhe kur jan\u00eb fizikisht t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm. Sa e trishtueshme \u00ebsht\u00eb kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb shikimin e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre, por n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb shikimi q\u00eb rrezaton empati, but\u00ebsi, g\u00ebzim dhe mir\u00ebkuptim, ata p\u00ebrballen me ekrane q\u00eb ndri\u00e7ojn\u00eb me nj\u00eb drit\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, nj\u00eb drit\u00eb q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e ngroht\u00eb dhe jet\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebse, por e ftoht\u00eb dhe iluzore. Ekranet, q\u00eb u vjedhin v\u00ebmendjen prind\u00ebrve, i thon\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs se koha dhe dashuria e tij nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. F\u00ebmija d\u00ebshiron n\u00ebn\u00ebn dhe baban\u00eb, jo biznesmen\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm dhe imazhe t\u00eb regulluara n\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn dixhitale\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>Edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb shprehim fal\u00ebnderimin ton\u00eb t\u00eb madh ndaj Komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Dibr\u00ebs&nbsp; q\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb me bujari n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb projekt, duke siguruar pajisje shkollore p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nga zonat rurale, dhe ndaj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb punonj\u00ebsve t\u00eb arsimit dhe kultur\u00ebs nga rajoni, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt e mb\u00ebshtesin k\u00ebt\u00eb projekt me zem\u00ebrgjer\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\nngg_shortcode_0_placeholder\n","protected":false},"featured_media":130319,"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"tags":[3891,3220,3408,3892,3893,3894],"category_vesti":[2959],"tags_vesti":[],"lokacii":[],"class_list":["post-130372","vesti","type-vesti","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-vera-sq","tag-debar-sq","tag-semejstvo-sq","tag-tehnologija-sq","tag-tradicionalni-vrednosti-sq","tag-tribina-sq","category_vesti-ngjarje"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/vesti\/130372","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/vesti"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/vesti"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/vesti\/130372\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/130319"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=130372"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=130372"},{"taxonomy":"category_vesti","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/category_vesti?post=130372"},{"taxonomy":"tags_vesti","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags_vesti?post=130372"},{"taxonomy":"lokacii","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigorski.org.mk\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/lokacii?post=130372"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}